Employer Tells New Mother to Submit Her Resignation, She's Not Going Anywhere

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    Font - ņ Posted by u/Dinfinity18 22 hours ago 10 6 3 5 I'm not resigning.. fire me bitch Okay, where to start. So I began my position in January 2020. Weird interview process, my boss is strange. But whatever, if she leaves me alone I can do my job. Horrible training, I taught myself almost everything. Covid happened, sent home to work remotely. No reason we couldn't have been at home anyways.. I worked from home 2.5 months after starting the role and quickly became the top performer on the team
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    Font - Fast forward to 2021, they've been saying we'd be back in the office "in no time" for over a year. (Despite management downplaying it and even suggesting it was a hoax, president of the company wasn't an idiot.) We didn't need to be there and we all worked better from home, as they even told us countless times. Told "you weren't hired to work from home", but none of us were thrilled about going in to help justify middle management's necessity or their newly renovated, empty office space.
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    Font - Have baby, enjoy leave, blah blah blah. Monday comes that I'm supposed to start back. Come back to over 900 emails, no word from boss for hours on first day. I find out my temp replacement quit after a week because she couldn't handle the workload. Handling baby and laptop like a champ, whatever it takes. Boss finally calls me, says hello. She mentions how the team is falling apart (most of the team is older and not in good health), and how we weren't approved for an additional hire that
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    Font - It's Monday night. Just sent an email shitting on them and how they've handled everything- my pregnancy, my return, the pandemic, being short staffed. Said I'm surprised they'd even consider losing me with my workload and recent turnover in mind. I'm not resigning. I'll continue to work at home until they say otherwise and my access is revoked. It could go either way, and I don't care either way. Tldr: new mom, 3 months postpartum. First day back to work last Monday. Remote since pandemic
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    Font - gamingdevil 20 hr. ago . I love how they say "we will consider it your resignation." Um, no, not it's not. Unless I tell you I quit, then you are firing me, you cannot force someone to resign. You either fire them, or they continue working and you continue paying. 478 Reply Share Dinfinity18 OP 18 hr. ago Right! It threw me off so much. On the rest of the call I was mostly quiet and let her talk. She wasn't making any sense 235 Reply Share Honest_Campaign_2230 10 hr. ago I love that you'r
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    Font - The_Basic_Shapes 22 hr. ago at work They are beyond stupid, and the one positive you'll have from losing this job (if it goes that route) is you'll get to laugh at the idiots while their idiot ship sinks. With your skillset, you'll bounce back and find some other, probably better, job. Or don't and spend more time with your newborn, if you can. Either way.... You got this shit. 7.1k Reply Share Dinfinity18 OP. 22 hr. ago Awe thanks! That made me smile. Exactly my thought too Probably gonn
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    Font - SwashbucklinChef 21 hr. ago You better update us as soon as you get a reply. I'm living vicariously through you and need to see the ending! 281 Reply Share Dinfinity18 OP · 20 hr. ago Of course! Literally just waiting for a call. So then I can ignore it and tell them to email me haha 257 Reply Share
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    Font - Blippi Toy Review - 22 hr. ago Love you!!!! Make them fire you. Like seriously. It makes people so uncomfortable to fire others. Make them do it. You get laid regardless until then 4.3k Reply Share D2Dragons 22 hr. ago I know you meant to say "paid" but holy smokes is that typo absolutely epic But technically she already was, which is why she has a baby! 2.1k Reply Share Blippi Toy Review - 21 hr. ago Bahahahaha my bad on the type. Yes. Paid! Reply Share 507
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    Font - Gnork 21 hr. ago . Congratulations on your baby and your giant steel ovaries! I bet they are absolutely panicking trying to figure out what is more important: their business or firing employees who don't crumple. 460 Reply Share Dinfinity18 OP. 20 hr. ago Haha thanks! And let's hope so. Wish I could see their faces when they read it 137 Reply Share
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    Font - Quiet___Lad 21 hr. ago . idle If you get fired, let the CEO know his managers are crap. They appear unable to manage a team remotely. It's a new world. Time for management to learn new skills. 1.5k Reply Share Dinfinity18 OP · 20 hr. ago Ooh! Seriously. My boss literally doesn't even need to exist in this new remote management chain. Micromanages, acts like we're idiots, doesn't know how to talk to us. God the stories I have.. She's probably overpaid like the rest of them 988 Reply Share
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    Font - jxf 20 hr. ago For the cherry on top, ask for a raise. After all, if they're short-staffed and already how's it going to look if you underwater, leave? 84 Reply Share Dinfinity18 OP · 20 hr. ago Haha I debated asking to be salary and work less hours. Apparently I should've! They may just be stupid enough or too proud though.. we'll see 43 Reply Share
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    Font - honeybadger1984 20 hr. ago Email them and copy your own email in everything so you document, and they know you're documenting. "Per our conversation" (use this phrase a lot), make it clear you have no intention to resign, and will continue to perform your job. You disagree with coming in as it's a risk and there's no reason to commute to the office if you're completing the work from home. Keep reiterating there will be no resignation. They are trying to weasel out of unemployment insuranc
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    Font - BuffaloJackalope 20 hr. ago If the pandemic has proven anything beyond any doubt, it's that 90% of office jobs don't need the office. Probably 99%. 62 Reply Share Dinfinity18 OP 19 hr. ago . Or middle management lol 45 Reply Share

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